Things are more complicated than you might think.
First let's tackle your current gear. I can totally understand your desire of more capable professional gear for events and weddings.
The 550D AKA the T2i in the USA uses the exact same image sensor as the one found in the much more expensive 7D. Common sense sense tells me this makes the 7D a poor value. The weather sealing, better AF and feature set, more FPS have zero impact on image quality. So there's that. The 7D is old in the fast moving dSLR world, so only buy one new if the price is significantly lower than the introduction price, even better get one used.
The Sony A77 is an amazing machine, and a match for the 7D in terms of where both cameras sit in the chain. The A77 will run rings around the 7D when it comes to HD video, fps, and auto focus speed and accuracy. The viewfinder allows you to do things that a conventional optical viewfinder cannot, but there are cons. In low light it can help but at some point noise is an issue, and in contrast-y situations, it can also be an issue.
Neither camera is a top choice if you plan on shooting weddings which will require a lot of high ISO work unless you are lucky enough to only shoot outdoor weddings. High FPS is something you don't need from any dSLR for the work you do. A better choice would be a cheaper, lower on the chain Pentax K 30 or K 50, a more serious camera like the Pentax K5 II is even better.
The 16MP Sony Exmor image sensor used in the Pentax bodies is better at high ISO than the 7D, A77, and all the new Nikon bodies.
One last piece of advice, don't sell your gear to get the new gear. For the work you do, two bodies are needed, so you don't have lens changes to make, and in case one body fails. Buy a dual camera sling from camera slingers or blackrapid.
Keep saving or do whatever you have to do, just be patient and save up for your next body. If you favor Canon, understand that they make nothing with an APS-C sensor that's better than what you own now. Sad, but that's what Canon chose to do to maximize their profit. The 70D has not been tested, but I have zero faith it will do well in the image sensor dept. You will need to jump to full frame to get a good Canon sensor. The 5D mark II used, or the 6D new are the best values.