Ignore the old man that lives in a cave. There were lots of people like him 10-12 years ago that claimed digital was no good, and they would stay with film to the end. And now they ALL own digital cameras.
ILC or EVIL or mirrorless cameras, whatever name they go by, well they have their place. There are some that have better image and video quality than dSLRs, and their compact size is a huge advantage only if you stick to a pancake prime or small zoom. If you get a huge zoom lens, then owning a small camera is kind of pointless.
The best image sensors for the money are found in Sony's NEX line. But Fuji is making big gains with their latest camera that brings their entry level price down to around 799 with lens. The Nikon J1, J2 and S1 are great cameras with very good image quality, they lack a few things so take note.
They lack the controls and some abilities that dSLRs have. They are set up to be "auto mode" shooters. The smaller image sensor still destroys any small sensor compact, but still isn't dSLR quality, also you can't defocus backgrounds as strongly as is possible with APS-C and full frame image sensors.
The Nikon 1 series is good for having fun, lots of filters, decent video, and being compact means it's more likely to be with you. Pair it with one of their tiny prime lenses, and it's a great walk around lens, especially at night.
The Nikon D3200 is bulky, and brings nothing new to the table. It's just another entry level dSLR, and Nikon added a lot of megapixels that nobody was asking for. Regardless, owning a dSLR is a commitment, there are millions of dSLRs in the USA and around the world collecting dust at home, or in the trunk of a car because people are tired of carrying them, the extra lenses, the bag, it's just too much sometimes.
I only carry my dSLR now if I'm getting paid. I now carry my Fuji X100 with me most of the time. Consider that before you go for a dSLR. Ignore old stuck in their ways photographers telling you that a camera isn't real because it does not have some feature they decide you need.
What the old guy won't tell you is that a cheap 499 US dollar Sony NEX 3N has an image sensor better than any Canon dSLR with the same size sensor. That means better than any Canon Rebel, the 60D, even the pro level 7D. That's a fact, notice he didn't tell you that. Use your common sense and decide.